If your dog is aggressive or dominant, start slowly. A sudden display of alpha behavior to a dog who considers himself the alpha will be seen as a challenge and the dog may choose an aggressive course of action. For instance, if you take the dog’s food away, something which an owner needs to be able to do, you could be bitten if the dog does not yet see you as its leader.
Asserting dominance over an alpha dog without understanding more about how an alpha behaves could cause serious consequences, including a very serious dog bite. Do not make the mistake of thinking that a dog won’t bite you. Most dog bites are the result of the dog feeling fearful and with enough fear arousal even a mild-mannered dog has the capacity to bite.
Know your dog
Julianne Stovall said: “…The more I learn about training, the more I realize it depends so much on BOTH the dog and the owner as to what will work. Techniques that are almost like magic with one dog are useless or damaging for another. A trick that one person uses naturally and positively can be ineffective, or even destructive, when another person attempts it. The only training technique that is truly universal is learning to read your dog.”
Dogs thrive with the security of knowing they have a consistent, dependable leader. However, if you do not provide that leadership then your dog will assume the leader or Alpha position. Your dog is constantly communicating with you and seeking guidance as to whom is in charge. The Alpha behaviors discussed below are cues or communication that signal pack position within your home. If you do not signal that you are in charge, your dog is genetically programmed to fill this void in leadership. The result could be a dog that is stressed by the responsibility of attempting to lead his pack in a human environment that is beyond his mental capabilities. This stress may lead to acting out in negative ways that range from excessive barking to lethal aggression. Dogs are not human. You can severely harm your dog with what is mistakenly viewed as kindness.
Here are some practical suggestions on dog care that will help reinforce your leadership position. Most of these are things all dog owners should do anyway.
Train your dog if you haven’t done so already, or have done only a little. We recommend personalized training that recognizes your dog’s individual temperament.
Dog should understand that they depend on you, the leader. No free-feeding. Feed once or twice a day and take the food away after 10-15 minutes. It should be very clear that you are the food-giver.
“Nothing in life is free.” Treats must be earned. Require at least a sit or a simple trick every time your dog receives a treat.
Leaders eat first. Sit down, eat your breakfast or dinner, and only then give dog its food.
Leaders go first. When going through a door, gate, or other opening, you go first. Have the dog do a sit-wait or down-wait. If the dog doesn’t know wait/stay yet, block the entrance with your body to keep the dog from rushing past you.
Leaders control where and when. When you send the dog out and you’re not going, have the dog sit and wait; then let the dog go when you say. Don’t open the door until he’s sitting properly.
Leaders control territory. Is the dog lying in the middle of the hallway and you have to step around him? Is he sitting in your favorite chair and you sit elsewhere instead? Make him move. It’s YOUR territory. Nudge dog in hall with your foot (no kicking!) so he moves. Lead him off the chair, then sit there. And, if the dog is really alpha, work on going out of your way to make him move from where he is. Remember to keep it non-confrontational, especially when you are still establishing your pack position. If he starts arguing, save this method for later.
Leaders mean what they say. Avoid giving a command you can’t enforce. When you give a command, enforce it. “Sit!” (low firm tone, no begging, squeaking, yelling). Issue no further commands if the dog doesn’t obey. Instead, use proper training techniques (e.g., scoop the butt under) to help the dog with the desired behavior — then praise liberally.
Don’t rough-house a pushy dog. If you do play games with toys, make sure you, not the dog, determine when the game is over. End the game before the dog is tired of it. Put the toy out of reach then, don’t leave it with the dog or on the floor.
If your dog loves to fetch, make your dog bring the ball to the leader, not three ft away so you have to step forward. The dog has to bring the toy to your feet, or to your hand, promptly drop it and back away or drop in your hand when you request it. No bring, no play.
Leaders also end affection. Give your dog lots of love and attention but be attuned to the pushy dog who demands it constantly. It might be an alpha move. If a pushy dog keeps asking for something, time after time (play ball or keep petting me), refuse. Place the toy out of reach and ignore requests. The same goes for pets who demand constant petting. Ignore the requests.
For pushy dogs, no sleeping on your bed. That makes him consider himself an equal, not a subordinate.
NEUTER! All those rushing hormones don’t help at all.
Place your hand lightly over the dog’s muzzle. Don’t grab, just hold for a few seconds.
Leaders have access to subordinate dogs’ bellies. The belly is vulnerable and making it available to you is an act of submission. Do belly rubs, with the dog belly up.
Straddle your dog while grooming, petting. Do lots of grooming/massage. Regular grooming/massage is good. Lots of touching is very good. When you first begin this, watch the dog very carefully. Some dogs are sensitive about being touched in certain areas. Proceed very, very gradually — it commonly takes much longer than you would expect. It often takes many months and at times you’ll seem to make negative progress. But be patient; this is very common. Pushing an edgy dog past its comfort level is a way to get bitten if you’re dealing with an assertive, or a particularly shy dog. If this is an issue, be sure to get advice and assistance from someone knowledgeable, such as an obedience trainer.
Gradually work over all of the dog’s body parts so he’s used to everything being touched. You should be able to handle feet, ears, toenails, balls, and stick your fingers in mouth and ears. All dogs should not object to any body part being touched. Visiting kids wouldn’t know not to touch those toes — so you want the dog thoroughly desensitized. This is especially important for a puppy. It’s sometimes tough with an older dog that already has a particular sensitive spot he’s sensitive about. Work on it a bit at a time.
Down is a subordinate position. Do long down stays every day, but make sure you can always keep your eye on dog. Enforce rigorously: No breaking that stay!
Dogs understand body language. There was a show on the language of dogs last night on the Discovery channel. Alpha dogs stand erect, with ears, head, and tails up. They do not wag their tails. They stare directly into another dog’s eyes. They place their paws on a subordinate dog’s shoulder or back. The alpha allows subordinates to lick their face and mouth. They showed a man who owned a pack of wolves, and he said if the alpha does not let the underlings lick their face and mouth, it confuses the whole pack.
You maintain your leader stance via:
direct eye contact
standing tall over your dog (for added effect I put my hands on my hips)
speaking in a firm voice
placing your hand occasionally on the dog’s shoulder.
Leaders are kind. Understand that a dog isn’t a human. If you lose patience or have had a bad day, quit. There is no way your dog will understand you are in a mood.
Leaders never, ever hit. The old school approach of swatting a dog with a newspaper does not work. It creates fear and a sense of being cornered — a recipe for disaster. Even yelling is counterproductive and possibly dangerous. If you find yourself becoming upset, take a break.
Leaders rule simply and react with immediacy. Remember the dog has a simple mentality. You: “Dog, come!” (Dog is busy with squirrel, doesn’t come). When dog finally comes, you punish him. To you, you just punished him for not coming. To him, you just punished him for coming! Oops! Think immediate action/reaction with dogs.
Leaders are consistent. Consistency is everything to a dog. They thrive on rules, repetition, and ritual. They don’t understand why you said one thing one day and mean it, then not the next. Keep it black and white — no shades of gray.
“A leader is best when people barely know he exists. Less good when they obey and acclaim him. Worse when they fear and despise him. Fail to honor people and they fail to honor you. But of a good leader, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will all say: ‘We did this ourselves.’ ”
— Former U.S. Senator Alan Cranston