Blue, Heather’s normally affectionate and obedient Rottweiler, began tearing up the house shortly after Heather went back to work as an accountant after several years at home. The contents of the trash cans were strewn all over the house. A favorite comforter was destroyed. Then Blue began peeing all over Heather’s expensive new living room carpet and systematically ripped through cables and electrical wires.
“I know exactly what’s going on,” Heather told her vet when she called seeking help. “Blue is angry with me for leaving her alone. She’s punishing me. She always looks guilty when I come home, so she knows she’s been bad. She knows she shouldn’t be doing those things.”
Heather’s assessment was typical of many dog owners’ diagnoses of behavioral problems. And her vet agreed, suggesting “separation anxiety” and prescribing anti-anxiety medication for Blue. Heather also hired a trainer, who confirmed the diagnosis.
Blue, they concluded, was resentful at her owner’s absence and was misbehaving to regain the attention that she’d once monopolized. After all, Blue didn’t transgress like this when Heather went out shopping or took in a movie with friends. It must be punitive. Heather’s mother even recalled Heather, as a child, throwing tantrums when she went off to work. Heather and Blue had become so close, she joked, that they were acting alike.
So Heather shut Blue in the kitchen with a toddler gate, removing countertop food and garbage. Things calmed down. Heather began to relax and gave Blue the run of the house again.
Heather, a friend of a friend, had called me for counsel as well. But since she, her vet, her trainer, and her mother had all reached the same conclusion, and since the rampaging had stopped, I didn’t give the situation much thought.
A month later, though, Heather was back on the phone: Blue had relapsed. She yowled piteously when confined to the kitchen or basement. Worse, she was showing signs of aggression with people and other dogs and refusing to obey even simple commands that were once routine. On one late-night walk, Blue attacked a terrier walking nearby, opening wounds that needed stitches.
Blue’s problems had grown so serious that kennels wouldn’t board the dog and the vet wouldn’t examine her without a muzzle. Heather was thinking of finding her another home, turning her over to a rescue group, possibly even euthanizing her.
“She’s out of control,” Heather complained, exhausted, angry, and frightened. She sounded betrayed—a dog she’d loved and cared for was turning on her because she went to work. “I caused this by leaving her,” Heather confessed, guiltily. But was she supposed to quit her job to stay home with her dog?
This time, Heather got my full attention. I took notes, asked questions, then called a fellow dog trainer I respected and explained the problem in as much detail as I could.
“Everybody says the dog was reacting to her going back to work,” I suggested.
“Everybody is probably wrong,” was his blunt comeback. “It’s ‘theory of mind.’ This is what often happens when humans assume that dogs think the way we do.”
His analysis: “Being angry at the human and behaving punitively—that’s not a thought sequence even remotely possible, given a dog’s brain. The likely scenario is that the dog is simply frightened.” When Heather was home, she was there to explain and enforce the rules. With her gone, the dog literally didn’t know how to behave. The dog should have been acclimated to a crate or room and confined more, not less, until she got used to her new independence.
Lots of dogs get nervous when they don’t know what’s expected of them, and when they get anxious, they can also grow restless. Blue hadn’t had to occupy time alone before. Dogs can get unnerved by this. They bark, chew, scratch, destroy. Getting yelled at and punished later doesn’t help: The dog probably knows it’s doing something wrong, but it has no idea what. Since there’s nobody around to correct behaviors when the dog is alone, how could the dog know which behavior is the problem? Which action was wrong?
He made sense to me. Dogs are not aware of time, even as a concept, so Blue couldn’t know whether she was being left for five minutes or five hours, or how that compared to being left for a movie two weeks earlier. Since she had no conscious notion that Heather’s work life had changed, how could she get angry, let alone plot vengeance? The dog was alone more and had more time to fill. The damage was increasing, most likely, because Blue had more time to get into mischief and more opportunities to react to stimulus without correction—not because she was responding to different emotions.
I was familiar with the “theory of mind” notion that my friend was referring to. Psychologist David Premack of the University of Pennsylvania talks about it; it’s also discussed in Stanley Coren’s How Dogs Think.
The phrase refers to a belief each of us has about the way others think. Simply, it says that since we are aware and self-conscious, we think others—humans and animals—are, too. There is, of course, enormous difference of opinion about whether this is true.
When I used to leave my border collie Orson alone in the house, uncrated, he learned to open the refrigerator with his nose, remove certain food items, open the plastic container, and consume its contents. Then he’d squirrel away the empty packages. Everyone I told this story made the same assumptions: Orson was a wily devil taunting me for leaving him alone. We actually installed a child lock on the refrigerator door. But what changed his behavior was that I began to crate him when I went out. He has not raided the fridge since. Yet he could easily sneak in and do that while he’s uncrated and I’m occupied outdoors or elsewhere in the house. Is he no longer wily? Or is he simply less anxious?
There’s no convincing evidence I’m aware of, from any reputable behaviorist, psychologist or professional dog trainer, that suggests dogs can replicate human thought processes: use language, think in narrative and sequential terms, understand human minds, or share humans’ range of emotions.
Yet that remains a powerful, pervasive view of dogs, the reason Heather’s vet, trainer, and mother all agreed on Blue’s motivations. It’s almost impossible not to lapse into theory-of-mind reasoning when it comes to our dogs. After all, most of us have no other way in which to grasp another creature’s behavior. How can one even begin to imagine what’s going on inside a dog’s head?
Most of the time, I don’t know why my dogs do what they do. They seem aware that I have a way of doing things. They’ve learned that we don’t walk in the street, that I don’t distribute food from my plate, that there will be a bone or treat after dinner. But they are creatures of habit and instinct, especially when it comes to food, work, and attention. I often think of them as stuff-pots wedded to ritual, resistant and nervous about change.
I don’t believe that dogs act out of spite or that they can plot retribution, though countless dog owners swear otherwise. To punish or deceive requires the perpetrator to understand that his victim or object has a particular point of view and to consciously work to manipulate or thwart it. That requires mental processes dogs don’t have.
The more I’ve moved away from interpreting my dogs’ behavior as nearly human, the easier it is to train them, and the less guilt and anxiety I feel.
To attribute complex thoughts and plots to their actions unravels the training process. Training and living with a dog requires a different theory: that these are primal, predatory animals driven by instinct. Rather than seeking animal clues to her dog’s behavior, Heather imagined herself as the dog. She reasoned that if she, Heather, were suddenly left alone for long periods, abandoned by someone she loved and used to spend a lot of time with, she would feel angry and hurt and might try to get even, not only to punish her companion but to try to persuade him or her to return.
That’s attributing a lot of intellectual activity to an animal that can recognize a few dozen words but has none of its own, that reads human emotions but doesn’t experience the same ones. Since the my friend’s analysis made sense to me, I conveyed his analysis: The dog didn’t know how to behave with Heather gone. Crating Blue would reduce her anxiety and give her less chance to act up. I persuaded Heather—by now distraught—to buy a large crate. For weeks, she fed the dog in the crate, leaving the door open. Between meals, she left treats and bones inside.
The first time Heather closed the crate door, Blue threw herself against the metal, whining and howling. The same thing happened the second, third, fifth, and tenth times. But Heather, cautioned that training and retraining often takes weeks and months, persisted. Sometimes she left the treat-filled crate open; other times she closed it.
After several weeks, Blue began to go into the crate willingly and remained there quietly for short, then lengthening periods. Heather walked Blue two or three times daily; when she was gone for more than three or four hours, she hired a dog walker to take her out an additional time and throw a ball. But whenever Heather left the house, she put Blue in the crate and left a nearby radio tuned to a talk network.
This time, Heather got it right, treating Blue as a dog, not a rebellious teenager. Blue improved dramatically, and the improvement continues. Her aggression diminished, then seemed to vanish, although Heather no longer lets her near dogs or children unleashed. It seemed the dog had comprehensible rules to follow, and felt safer.
Blue was liberated from the confusion, anxiety, and responsibility of figuring out what to do with her unsupervised and sudden freedom. Once again there was little tension between the two of them. Heather’s house wasn’t getting chewed up, and homecomings weren’t tense and angry experiences. Yet here was a case, I thought, where seeing canine behavior in human terms nearly cost an animal its life.
Sometimes it does. Harry, a social worker in Oak Park, wrote me that he had a great rescue dog named Rocket and was happy enough with the experience to adopt a second. Rocket attacked the new dog while Harry was feeding them, then bit a neighborhood kid. “He never forgave me for getting the new dog,” Harry explained. “He was so angry with me. I couldn’t trust him not to take out his rage on others, so I had him put to sleep.”
We will never know, of course, what Rocket could or could not forgive. Rocket probably didn’t attack the new dog out of anger at Harry. He was more likely protecting his food or pack position. The creature in the household with the most to lose from a new arrival, he probably simply fought for what he had. Then, once aroused, he was more dangerous. As trainers know, dogs under pressure have two options: fight or flight. Rocket decided to fight and paid for it with his life. Had his owner known more about dogs’ true nature, he might have introduced the new dog more gradually, or not at all. And there might be one less bitten child. But this is all a guess. We will never know.
When I face such training problems—and I do, we all do—I try to adopt a Sherlock Holmesian strategy, using logic and determination. We have all sorts of tools at our disposal that dogs don’t have. We control every aspect of their lives, from food to shelter to play, so we ought to be able to figure out what’s driving the dog and come up with an individually tailored approach that works—and if it doesn’t, come up with another one.
Why will Clementine come instantly if she’s looking at me, but not if she’s sniffing deer droppings? Is it because she’s being stubborn or, as many people tell me, going through “adolescence”? Or because, when following her keen predatory instincts, she simply doesn’t hear me? Should my response be to tug at her leash or yell? Maybe I should be sure we’ve established eye contact before I give her a command, or better yet, offer a liver treat as an alternative to whatever’s distracting her. But how do I establish eye contact when her nose is buried? Can I cluck or bark? Use a whistle or hoot like an owl?
I’ve found that coughing, of all things, fascinates her, catches her attention, and makes her head swivel, after which she responds. If you walk with us, you will hear me clearing my throat repeatedly. What can I say? It works. She looks at me, comes to me, gets rewarded.
The reality is, we don’t know that much about what dogs think, because they can’t tell us. Behaviorists tend to believe that dogs “think” in their own way—in sensory images involving their finely honed instincts. They’re not capable of deviousness or spite. They love routine: Nothing seems to make them more comfortable than doing the same thing at the same time in the familiar way, day after day: We snack here, we poop there, we play over here. I am astonished at how little it takes to please them, how simple their lives can be if we don’t complicate it.